I have had several conversations with my aunts and older friends, some of them shared stories of how they met their boyfriends and husbands. It seems back then men were willing to do anything to put food on the table for their families. The worked hard and they did it earnestly. This generation seems to be quite different they either feel that they have to blame the government for their misfortunes or they simply engage in illegal activities just to buy unnecessary things that or spend it on things they can never profit from.
Even men who worked as butlers or gardeners back then where proud of being able to work and provide for their families, but now all you here is black men bragging about how hard they hustle, be it internet scamming, human and drug trafficking, they seem very proud of what they do.
We often hear men say they want a cultured, working class woman but the same men are against feminist view, which by the way encourage women to be independent and become just as productive as men. They want someone whom will take up half of his role as a provider but they still want the same person to act a follower and not a partner. Before men were proud to be the sole provider for their families.
What i would love to know is if honest, hardworking men are seizing to exist? Please drop your comments below...
Even men who worked as butlers or gardeners back then where proud of being able to work and provide for their families, but now all you here is black men bragging about how hard they hustle, be it internet scamming, human and drug trafficking, they seem very proud of what they do.
We often hear men say they want a cultured, working class woman but the same men are against feminist view, which by the way encourage women to be independent and become just as productive as men. They want someone whom will take up half of his role as a provider but they still want the same person to act a follower and not a partner. Before men were proud to be the sole provider for their families.
What i would love to know is if honest, hardworking men are seizing to exist? Please drop your comments below...
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