Hi house, I need advice on a very personal and serious matter concerning my younger sister and her ex. Now just to be clear,me n my sister have had our problems for a long time so we were practically strangers to each other during the genesis of the problem.
She had a baby for dis guy against d wishes of the family and they couldn't get married den(2009) cos my parents aren't together n my dad refused to get involved cos of d baby so wit mumsie support they did a court wedding before he travelled back to u.k where he was based den.
I didn't even know wen they broke up but my sister who dropped out from skl earlier cos of different problems had to start all over again n is presently in her 3rd yr in Engineering.
The guy's mum had always kept in touch wit my mum concerning the baby,n even travelled down from U.S wit her husband to see the boy. She had been applying for greencard for her own son ( my sister's ex) and his brother. The guy was even telling me today that he included my sister as his spouse n their baby on his application but that she told him that she wanted nothing to do with him,that he abandoned her n he was a liar....So he got his greencard and went in 2012.
Since then he n his mum have been pressuring my mum n family that they want their boy,he even said he wanted my sister..all this I wasn't aware of cos my mum n sister kept it from me.
When they realized they weren't getting anywhere they went to my grandmum who now involved me. Right now the boy is 5 and his walk in interview for his greencard is February 26,the problem is that, for everybody to be happy my sister has to go also. Initially,her ex said no problem n even paid for d immigration form 1-130 for her as the first stage of her visa application. We were waiting for their response only for him to tell me today that the process might take years before she is given.
But that if the boy comes as an underage green card holder after a month or so he will be a citizen,then a social security number will be given to him. Her ex said he can thenuse this number on another form and apply which will accelerate the whole process as she is the child's mum.
As expected my sister n mum went ballistic n said why didn't he say so initially,that he just wants the boy and she will keep d boy till the visa comes out,Wen I told him he also got mad that it wasn't his doing, that its the process n he is only worried cos after a while the boy's green card will be returned back to d national center.
As I am in the middle of this whole mess,what do I tell her to do...does it really take dat long for her visa to be processed even though he put her we his spouse in his own greencard application?
If their son goes to join the father,can his social security number be truly used to hasten his mother's visa application?
PLS HELP URGENTLY!!!!
She had a baby for dis guy against d wishes of the family and they couldn't get married den(2009) cos my parents aren't together n my dad refused to get involved cos of d baby so wit mumsie support they did a court wedding before he travelled back to u.k where he was based den.
I didn't even know wen they broke up but my sister who dropped out from skl earlier cos of different problems had to start all over again n is presently in her 3rd yr in Engineering.
The guy's mum had always kept in touch wit my mum concerning the baby,n even travelled down from U.S wit her husband to see the boy. She had been applying for greencard for her own son ( my sister's ex) and his brother. The guy was even telling me today that he included my sister as his spouse n their baby on his application but that she told him that she wanted nothing to do with him,that he abandoned her n he was a liar....So he got his greencard and went in 2012.
Since then he n his mum have been pressuring my mum n family that they want their boy,he even said he wanted my sister..all this I wasn't aware of cos my mum n sister kept it from me.
When they realized they weren't getting anywhere they went to my grandmum who now involved me. Right now the boy is 5 and his walk in interview for his greencard is February 26,the problem is that, for everybody to be happy my sister has to go also. Initially,her ex said no problem n even paid for d immigration form 1-130 for her as the first stage of her visa application. We were waiting for their response only for him to tell me today that the process might take years before she is given.
But that if the boy comes as an underage green card holder after a month or so he will be a citizen,then a social security number will be given to him. Her ex said he can thenuse this number on another form and apply which will accelerate the whole process as she is the child's mum.
As expected my sister n mum went ballistic n said why didn't he say so initially,that he just wants the boy and she will keep d boy till the visa comes out,Wen I told him he also got mad that it wasn't his doing, that its the process n he is only worried cos after a while the boy's green card will be returned back to d national center.
As I am in the middle of this whole mess,what do I tell her to do...does it really take dat long for her visa to be processed even though he put her we his spouse in his own greencard application?
If their son goes to join the father,can his social security number be truly used to hasten his mother's visa application?
PLS HELP URGENTLY!!!!
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