What do you when your parents, siblings etc are asking you for money all the time? I'm feeling a little frustrated right now because I work hard, don't spend very much money on myself, but I feel like my frugality isn't being rewarded.
Rationally I understand that my family has to come first, and that my parents/relatives have done a lot for me. But I'm wondering why so many of these expenses are directed at me, when we have everyone in the family earning good money.
I never get any room to breathe. One month it is school fees, the next it is send money to so-and-so, then next month is taxes.
I'm a bit envious of my American friends (both black and white); for them they finish school, get a job, and then do whatever they want with the money they earn.
Thanks in advance for your advice.
Rationally I understand that my family has to come first, and that my parents/relatives have done a lot for me. But I'm wondering why so many of these expenses are directed at me, when we have everyone in the family earning good money.
I never get any room to breathe. One month it is school fees, the next it is send money to so-and-so, then next month is taxes.
I'm a bit envious of my American friends (both black and white); for them they finish school, get a job, and then do whatever they want with the money they earn.
Thanks in advance for your advice.
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