Akpors and His Mum argument

Akpos' overheard his wife and his mum shouting. Akpos' mum said; My son must listen to me and obey my instructions unless this is not my breast he sucked for 1 year. Akpos' wife replied; Mama that was 30 years ago. You must realise that it is my breast he now sucks. He has sucked it for more than 3 years and he's still sucking. Akpos' mum fired back; I carried him for 9 months. Akpos' wife replied; He was only 3.5kg then, wasn't he? What's the big deal? I am carrying him everynight, he's now 90kg. Now the question is who really owns Akpos. His Wife or his Mum